Let’s Go to the Movies decided to host her very first blogathon and the rules weren’t too difficult to follow: one could write about films set in one’s hometown, films made in one’s hometown, famous people in film who were born in your hometown, famous people in film who grew up in your hometown, and famous film folks who now live in your hometown. My hometown has actually been featured in two films and a popular television show, so let’s delve into my hometown, Defiance, Ohio and find out what it’s connections to the entertainment industry are.
In 1996 a family comedy film came to theatres, House Arrest, starring Jamie Lee Curtis and Kevin Pollack. It was written by Michael Hitchcock, who was born in Defiance, Ohio but then moved to Western Springs, Illinois as a child. He wrote House Arrest, setting the story in Defiance and named the characters after families he had known in Defiance. I haven’t seen House Arrest but I recognized the surname Beindorf, which is the one of the families in the film’s last name. Beindorf was the last name of the principal at Defiance Junior High School when I was a student there, 1977-1980. (At that time, our Junior High consisted of grades 7-9.) Instead of filming the scenes in Defiance, another Ohio city, Chagrin Falls, in the NE part of the state, was used as a stand-in.

Notice on Kevin Pollack’s t shirt it says, “Defiance”! There is a college in my hometown, so perhaps it was one of their t-shirts.
House Arrest is a cute movie, the premise is that four families are suddenly facing the fact that all of their marriages are on the rocks and may end in divorce so the kids of these families somehow get their parents into the basement of the Beindorf family’s home, and lock them in there and tell their parents that they won’t be released until they agree to stop the various divorce proceedings.
Defiance, Ohio’s next brush with Hollywood came in of April of 2001. A book came out, The Prizewinner of Defiance, Ohio. It was written by Terry Ryan, and it was the true story of how her mother entered many contests sponsored by advertisers in the 1950s and 1960s and won many of those contests. She entered these contests in order to find a way to keep an income coming into the home as she and her husband had 10 children to support and raise, and despite her husband, Kelly’s job, he often drank away much of his paychecks. Many of these contests were jingle writing ones, sponsored by advertisers of popular radio and television shows. Mrs. Ryan, Evelyn, used her brains and her strong writing skills, and often won either money or actual prizes that she could sell for money to keep her family above water. One contest was held by the local grocery store, Chief, and Evelyn had to run through the store in a set amount of time and load up her cart with free groceries-wish grocery stores had contests like that one today! Terry had no idea how her book would be accepted by the readers of America but it did quite well, well enough for screenwriter and director, Jane Anderson, to show interest in turning Terry’s book into a movie.
My mom went to St. Mary’s Catholic School with Terry. She said the Ryan kids were all really good kids, and yes, the town knew their dad had a drinking problem. Their mother, Evelyn, was a nice lady. Needless to say, when Terry’s book came out lots of folks in Defiance bought copies of it to read. When word got out that it was going to be made into a movie, lots of people were hoping it would actually be filmed in Defiance. However, the favorable factor that filming in Canada would be cheaper to the studio won out and the movie was shot in various places in the province of Ontario! Oh how disappointed the citizens of Defiance were, hoping for a movie to be filmed in their beloved town! The stars of The Prizewinner of Defiance, Ohio are Julianne Moore, as Evelyn Ryan, Woody Harrelson as Kelly Ryan, and Laura Dern as Dortha Schaefer, a friend of Evelyn’s. Terry Ryan and one of her sisters, , Betsy, make cameo appearances in the film. Terry got to see the finished film but sadly passed away in 2007 from cancer.
My hometown, Defiance, Ohio has also appeared on the hit ABC television show, Scandal. My dad is a huge fan of the show and during season 2’s run, he’d tell me how the Defiance, Ohio voters were using illegally rigged touchscreen machines, and the unknowing citizens’ votes gave the election to President Fitgerald Grant! I had to laugh and laugh and laugh about this plot! Out of curiosity, and thanks to our Roku box and Netflix, I began to watch Scandal, season 1 and then the infamous season 2 with it’s Defiance, Ohio storyline. I laughed when I saw the high school(that’s not what our high school looks like!), and the fact that the voting machines were stored in some utility building near a baseball field! I still tease my Dad a bit about this “voting” scandal that highlighted my hometown for a couple of months, on a fictional television show.
My last bit of Hollywood fame for my hometown was that Bob Hope’s son married a local girl there, at the church I grew up attending, to boot! A young woman from Defiance, OH, Judith Richards, went to Wellesley College and after graduation, went to Harvard Law School and earned her law degree. Sometime in the pursuit of her degrees, she met and fell in love with Bob Hope’s son, Anthony. The Hope’s were Catholic and the wedding was held at St. Mary’s Catholic Church, in December of 1967. Defiance was all agog as celebrities descended to attend the wedding ceremony: Bing Crosby and his wife, Katherine, Liza Minelli, Toots Shor, and Phyllis Diller, to name a few. Mrs. Crosby even went to one of the downtown’s local drugstores to purchase something and had no cash on her so she wrote a check, which the store proudly displayed for several years!
Settled in the flatlands of NW Ohio, a small city of 16,000 with tinier towns nestled around it, fields of corn or soybeans dotting the area during the Spring and Summer, a General Motors foundry town, Defiance, Ohio has done remarkably well in being tapped for Hollywood mediums of entertainment.
12 Nov
Did the President Really Disrespect Stay-At-Home-Moms?
Posted by jennifromrollamo in Social Commentary. Leave a comment
On October 31, 2014, President Obama spoke at Rhode Island College, in Providence, RI. He was speaking on the topic of Women and the US Economy. As I was perusing facebook later that same day, several well-meaning friends had put up links from news outlets about the President’s speech. Most of the news outlets were all touting the same comment, that the President had shown disrespect to stay-at-home moms(sahms). I was taken aback by this bit of news. I am and have been a sahm for 23 years now. I was taken aback because I thought to myself, would the President really say something so disrespectful to a group of women, that has grown to 29% of all women with children 18 and under(Pew Report)?
President Obama speaking at Rhode Island College, Providence, RI on October 31, 2014.
I am a conservative voter, thinker, and I follow politics. I read various news sources each day, watch the news, and while not agreeing with much of President Obama’s political ideologies and policies, I had my doubts that he had really disrespected sahms. I decided to do a bit of investigative research on what he actually said in his speech on October 31st.
What I found out was that the President was talking about the fact that Rhode Island has a paid family leave as a state law and he wished more states had such a law; 2 other states besides RI have such a law on their books. The President cited examples of women who can’t take much time off from their jobs for a proper maternity leave, or take time off if they need to care for a seriously ill loved one. He cited examples of women who do take that time away to provide care for loved ones, and when they take that leave, they risk losing their pay or their positions in their careers. He went on to state that sometimes families can’t find affordable and/or quality childcare or preschools, so a parent gives up their career to be with the kids when they’re small, and that that can negatively affect a family’s economic level. He didn’t slam sahms from what I deciphered from his speech. Here are the remarks he made if you want to read it for yourself.
As to his view of having paid leave for all who need to take leave from a career or job for personal reasons, I have to ask, who will pay for this leave in dollars and cents? Where will the company find the money to do this? If a state makes it mandatory, does this apply to all places of employment or just to large companies with deep pockets? Will this apply to those working minimum wage jobs? I can’t foresee that many businesses who have minimum wage employees can afford to provide a paid leave for those employees. Also, what is an affordable daycare? What comprises a good daycare and who monitors that? Let’s mandate free, quality Preschools? To get the free preschools, that would force the local public schools to add them to their school districts, but then again, that will cost rises in school tax levies which would then be put onto the school districts’ taxpayers, so saying it’s free isn’t really the truth. The President may wish the federal government can step in and create full-paid leave for those who have to leave a job for a while and/or fabulous daycares and preschools that are economically priced and convenient to where a family lives, but there is a whole host of unintended consequences that would result from such sweeping legislation.
When my husband and I began our family 23 years ago, we knew that I wanted to stop my teaching career to be a sahm. I have never regretted my decision to put my career on hold. As our youngest will turn 12 in 2015, I am gearing up for a return to teaching, whether as a full time teacher in the classroom or as a full-time sub, I have some flexibility in what I choose to do.
Life is hard and it’s not fair. Life doesn’t always flow like a Happily-Ever-After fairytale ending. Loved ones get terribly sick and need care. Babies are born and need care. Sometimes those life events throw huge monkey wrenches into our lives and the routine of living has to be put on hold for a while or for an entire season of life and those events have to be dealt with, they have to be endured. When the event is over or has moved to a new stage, then that career and the old ways of living may be returned to.
I suggest, Mr. President, that you leave it up to the individuals and their families how best to deal with those monkey wrenches.
I would suggest different speeches, instead of focusing on women and the economy, how about ways to make the economy better for all working Americans? Since this speech was made in late October, my cynical self thinks it was scheduled to aim a speech at women, in a hope to boost the vote for Democrats in the mid-term elections that were approaching, since the Republicans are supposedly “at war” with women. Rhode Island, situated on the East coast, isn’t a hotbed of conservative voters, either, so that was a safer place to make a speech to appeal to liberal sensibilities.
If you want to help the economy for women, Mr. President, lower the tax rates, change the way that the federal tax code penalizes married women vs women co-habitating with a man. How about finding ways to have colleges stop hiking up their tuition rates that force some college students to head into onerous debt just in order to earn their degrees?
No, I don’t see the President’s speech as a disrespectful rant at stay-at-home-moms. I see the speech bringing up some valid concerns that all Americans will eventually face, from time to time and I see it as difficulties Americans can deal with on their own without more intrusive laws from a federal government that just wants to “help” people. I’ll end with a famous quote and warning from the late economist Milton Friedman: “Nothing is so permanent as a temporary government program.” Also, this quote by Mr. Friedman, which I think proponents of government intervention for every problem under the sun should memorize: ” One of the great mistakes is to judge policies and programs by their intentions rather than their results.”